Am I too abnormal to have a happy life?

Everybody is different. You can have a happy life. Happy is also something different for everyone. The trick is to find people who understand you. This will not be easy but I promise you there are people who know and understand what Asperger's is. Keep maintaining that it is not a handicap (it really isn't) and when you meet people who don't know anything about it be prepared to answer questions and recommend books or websites. Look for Asperger's support groups in your area.