Is this how a normal "good dad" behaves or should I be a little annoyed at my husband?

My husband told me a couple of years ago that he doesn't enjoy time with his kids unless it's something that entertains him. He has planned for me to do things with his kids more than once so he can park his @ss in front of the computer. When they come to visit, it's hard for him to tear himself away from his video games, etc. to be with them. Some people are just selfish, and it seems that more men are than women. The older girl needs way more of her dad than she's getting. Her mom already rejected her. If she doesn't get the attentions she needs she'll be 13 and seeking it from boys. Just like my poor step-daughters will be doing. You are right, and you should keep trying to get through to him. Would he read parenting books if you got them? i don't know if there are DVD's on the topic, but I'd keep trying. You're a great mom!